Hot Foreplay Buttons

Contributed by Gabrielle Moore

There are 101 things that you can do tonight that can make your woman's blood boil a little hotter. A lot of men think immediately that this involves new and difficult sex positions or even the use of sexual aids but really, just KNOWING which pleasure buttons to hit is all it takes. Read on!

Foreplay Buttons

One: While making out, make sure your lips and tongue give attention to your lover's neck. Ok, a lot of men know that already and you've probably applied that technique yourself... but what about that soft and tender patch of skin in front of her ears?!? While kissing or licking this soft area, whisper something sweet or something lewd! Now that will get your girl going.

Two: Break away from kissing her just a bit and then lick her lips. While licking her lips oh so gently, whisper that you can't wait to lick her down there too!

Three: Just when she's wet and panting, glide your hand down there and caress her through her undies. And then say something with the word 'soaking' in your sentence.

Four: Make your way to the bed and as she's lying there, deliberately get off the bed and put some distance between the two of you. Now undress, making sure she sees exactly how turned on you are. You don't need to engage in full-on self-play but touching yourself once or twice to show how long you are for her is a good idea.

Five: As she lays down naked in bed, run a silk tie or silk scarf all over her. Now ask her to turn around and this time, as the silk tie or scarf runs over her spine, follow it up with your hot tongue.

Six: Instead of a striptease, why not ask your lover for a 'bed dance' instead? This is when she dances completely naked all over you as you like completely naked on your back. Have her sashay all over your face, chest, and yes, down there.

Seven: While giving oral, place a pillow under her to elevate her mound. This will give you more access, and her, more pleasure.

Eight: While out on a weekend drive, pull over somewhere semi-secluded and then ask her to pleasure you or bend down and suck on her breasts.

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New Twists on Old Games...

One: Instead of the standard 69 position, why not place your manhood between her breasts instead while you guys are in this position.

Two: Or why not do the 'inverted 69'. This is when she sits on you but instead of using her mouth on your manhood, she sits up and uses her hands on you instead.

Three: This time, while she's on top, ask her NOT to remove her clothes. Instead, lift up her t-shirt or lingerie every now and then so you can get a 'peak' at what you're doing down there.

Four: Take her from behind but instead of being on your knees, do this lying down. The pleasure will be more intense!

Five: Don't be shy to 'rough each other up' once in a while! So tonight, don't go to your bedroom; don't even lie down. Do it against a wall with your clothes still on and just about 10 minutes before somebody is due to visit you! The roughness, the wildness, and the thrill of being caught with your pants down -- literally! -- will make this the hottest sex ever!

Six: While she's on the 'woman on top' position, ask her to SLOWLY turn around (face your feet instead). As she does this, stay as unmoving as you can in bed. This will enable you to feel every inch of her on your manhood as she twists and turns.

Seven: Morning sex is so underrated! Tomorrow morning, why not engage in slow sensual sex OR take her roughly over the bathroom sink as she tries to brush her teeth!



There you have it. There's lots of ways you can increase the hotness meter in your bedroom (or elsewhere) without having to engage in anything you may consider *taboo*. Just let your imagination run a little wild and just go with it! You never know what reaction you'll get from your partner until you try.

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A Sexual Massage -- in the Bathtub

Contributed by Gabrielle Moore

One of the ways a woman gives herself a relaxing treat is by soaking in a long, hot bath so you can take this opportunity to really giver her a treat by preparing a bath for her. Of course, with other 'extra treats' as only you can provide.

How to Prepare a 'Proper' Bath for Her

No guys, a bath is not just filling the tub with hot water and pouring some bubble bath solution in it. If you're going to do this, do it good and create the right ambiance for her.

First, close the windows and blinds and submerge the whole bathroom in darkness. Next, light some candles. They can be scented or not depending on what you use for the... scented oil you want to place on the burner or oil diffuser.

So for example, if you're using vanilla oil on the oil diffuser, don't use strawberry-scented candles as the heady, super sweet smells will most likely give you both a headache. Aim for one scent or like what's mentioned above, use non-scented candles if you're going to burn scented oils.

Also, don't scrimp on the candles ok? The more, the merrier!

Next, put on some soothing music and make sure it's not too loud or too soft. To test this, turn the music on and go into the bathroom and close the door a bit. Check if the music level is just right.

Next, make sure everything you need is within reach. It's not good if you break the sexual massage all the time by running out of the bathroom! Plus, it's not good for the overall warm temperature in the bathroom. Just put everything you need on a tray and set this on the toilet or on a small chair.

Don't forget a few edible treats. A glass of wine or champagne and a platter of crackers and cheese are sexy and will make you both last long during the sexual massage.

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Sexual Massage Moves in the Bath

For starters, let her soak in the bath for about 5 to 10 minutes just to loosen her tight muscles and wracked nerves. Don't join her in the bath just yet.

Start sexually massaging her while you're still outside the tub. Sit on the edge or pull up a chair and use a wooden massage roller and move this along her body.

You can also position yourself at the top edge of the tub so you can massage her head. Slip your hands under her shoulders and then draw them up and out. A variation of this step is to pull your hands along the underside of the head, with your fingers against the back of the neck.

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Feel free to shampoo her hair too. The pressure of your hands on her scalp in combination with the soft suds of the shampoo will feel great. Besides, this is the beauty of a sexual massage in the bathroom, no cares for the all the water and soap that might spill on the floor.

Now, without breaking your massage strokes, climb into the bathtub and join her. Sit behind her with her back to yours (sort of like spoon to spoon). Start massaging her shoulders and work your way to her lower back. And now comes the best part... massaging her front.

Start by reaching over and cupping her breasts (gently!). You can use the soap suds or better yet, put more soap gel on your hands and start massaging her breasts as if you were trying to create a lot of lather!

Tease her by massaging her breasts, moving to her shoulders, going back to her breasts, going down and rubbing her stomach, back to hear breasts again. Each time, be a bit more daring and go lower and lower her front. For instance, just massage or 'clean' her belly button with your finger and then go back to her breasts before going down to her pubic area.

Here's a naughty tip for you: unless your woman has gone Brazilian (i.e., has had all her pubic hair shaved off) you can try 'shampooing' her hair down there! Simply apply the same strokes you would as if you were washing her hair.

As a climax to this hot tub sexual massage, you may go ahead and insert your finger in her 'sweet spot'. Remember, this should be part of the sexual massage and should not be seen as the sexual act itself so be gentle while you finger her. The objective is not to make her come but to simply 'connect' with that special place as well. Good luck!

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12 Nights of Passion

Contributed by Gabrielle Moore

Sex games can be as easy or as complicated as you want them to be. There are those where you just whip out a sex game board and be done with it in a few minutes -- nothing wrong with that! -- but there are also those that take some time in its execution.

Your sex life should never be a routine. That's why it's important to engage in BOTH simple and more complex sex games. One benefit of the latter is that the longer you delay actual lovemaking, the hotter you guys are by that time!

12 Nights of Passion

This sex game is designed for super extended foreplay. The goal is to reach the 12th night without having intercourse, making the 12th night one of intense passion. Here's a sample outline you can use.

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1st night -- Have a romantic dinner either at home or at a fancy restaurant. While dining, play footsie and/or indulge in a little bit of groping underneath the table.

2nd night - Sprinkle red roses in bed, light some candles and play some soft music, and then just cuddle each other till you sleep.

3rd night -- Play strip poker and once all your or your partner's clothes are off, engage in a little dry rubbing, but that's it! Don't engage in having sex.

4th night -- Play "silent dirty words". Get a pen and blank sheet of paper each. Write a dirty word or phrase on the piece of paper, tear it off and hand it to your lover. Your lover reads it and then drops it in a bowl. Now it's her turn to write another dirty word or phrase and hand it off to you. Do not talk in between this exercise. Just write, show the words and that's it. The 'loser' is the one who runs out of dirty words first. (You will notice that at the end of this exercise, you guys have just collected a bowl of dirty phrases you can use for a future game!) After the game has ended, laugh it off, have a bowl of ice cream or something and go to bed.

5th night -- Play sexy twister. Take out the twister mat or board and play a traditional game of twister... naked.

6th night -- It's the sixth day, give yourselves a little bit of reprieve by engaging in some hot oral sex. You can bring each other to a climax but do NOT engage in intercourse.

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7th night -- "Accidentally" leave out some adult-rated reading material for your lover to see and glance over. Make sure the erotica is hot enough to really bring about lust in your partner. When she asks you about it, feign innocence!

8th night -- Give each other a sexual massage. Be naughty and daring but do not engage in lovemaking. You can engage in oral pleasure but not to the point of bringing on a climax.

9th night -- Give your partner a call at an odd hour of the day, say 2 PM or whenever she least expects it, and engage in some phone sex. Don't go too far; just get each other excited. After that, say you probably dialed the wrong number and hang up, or change your voice to 'normal' and simply say "love you honey, see you tonight for dinner" and then hang up.

10th night -- Go online together tonight and preview a few adult-rated literotica.

11th night -- Send naughty messages to your lover all throughout the day! Send a sex joke via SMS, email a long and dirty joke, and others. By the time you see each other tonight, pretend like nothing happened!

12th night -- Shoot a short erotic video of yourself. Don't go all the way. Instead, at the end of the video, look into the camera and tell your lover where you should meet tonight. It can be a hotel room, motel room or your own bedroom but fancily dressed up. The minute your lover enters the location you indicated on the video, do not engage in foreplay whatsoever! After all these days, you're pent up passions will be enough for one of the hottest moments of your life!

The 12 Nights of Passion is designed to bring about so many things in your relationship. It's a sex game of creativity and control. But its real goal is to make each day one of heightened sexual pleasure and longing for each other. Can you imagine how you guys will come together by the 12th night after all that waiting and sexual highs and lows?!? Give this extended sex game a try and be sure to do it more than once a year!

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Foreplay Tips for Him

Contributed by Gabrielle Moore

So, you want to take the initiative this time and want to surprise your girlfriend /wife / lover with your foreplay skills. But then again, you realize that foreplay hasn't been your 'thing' lately and you're not sure what to do...

Well, lucky you! I've compiled these hot foreplay tips you can use ASAP so that you can have her breathing hard and lusting for your touch tonight!

Hot Tips for Sexual Foreplay

Sometimes, foreplay can be a disaster if you don't know what you're doing. For instance, you may have seen movies where he 'tweaks' her nipples... HARD. Well guys, you know what? That HURTS and you're not really arousing her that way. So to guide your naughty thoughts, take heed of my foreplay tips below!

Don't forget her neck. Often, guys think of foreplay as 'kissing' and making love as 'having sex'. Sorry guys, that's way too simple for us girls. So during foreplay, don't just kiss her thoroughly, pay attention too to other female body parts such as her neck, arms, legs, and even her feet. Alternate between kissing, licking and nibbling these areas and she'll be putty in your hands in no time.

Mentally 'sex her up'. It's a fact. Guys go for visual stuff while women like to be mentally put 'in the mood'. So if you're planning for some hot sex tonight, start foreplay early during the day so she's already in the mood by the time you reach for her at home.

For example, if you guys are standing on line for something, get close to her and whisper something REALLY DIRRRTY into her ear! Important: paint her a picture in her head. So don't just say "I'm going to fuck you tonight". Instead, say "You know babe, I'm horny now so when we get back home, I will lick your clit so good that..." I think you get my drift by now...

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Dry hump her. In its most generic sense, foreplay is all about 'increasing the sexual tension' so that you and your partner are uber-primed for the sexual act itself. Well, what's more arousing than imitating intercourse movements (humping) than doing it with clothes on! Preferably, do this in a public place or in a club. Basically, do it where you cannot proceed to doing intercourse. This way, you guys will be h-h-hot for sex later!

Slow dance... while butt-naked. OK, this time foreplay without clothes! You can just be half-dressed or completely naked for this one. Put on some slow and/or lusty music, dim the lights, light some candles, take some or all of your clothes off and start swaying to the music. Remember that the trick here is to dance close to her body so that she can feel your erection against her. Hot!

Go 'under the table'. I just love sharing experiences from subscribers and here's another one. One time, while Jill (subscriber name changed for privacy) and her husband were having dinner, they were getting a bit naughty and started to 'play footsie' under the table. This then proceeded to her fully extending her leg and with her foot, she started playing with his penis through his pants. What happened next shocked her...

Without warning, he went under the table, spread her legs, pulled down her shorts and tongued her! Jill swears the foreplay and the suddenness of his moves was the hottest sex and the best orgasm she ever had!

Try this one tonight and don't worry if she's wearing pants. Just rub your face against her mound and it will turn her so horny SHE will start to bring her pants down.

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Tease her until the very end. No, the fact that she has her clothes off does NOT mean it's intercourse time. You can extend foreplay to the very end and bring her to delirious lust by using the head of your penis to tease her throbbing vagina. Just rub the point of your manhood all over her vagina -- especially her clit -- and trust me, she'll go wild with passion!

I hope you thoroughly enjoy these foreplay tips! Just remember to vary your 'foreplay moves'. Otherwise, everything becomes routine again! So for example, tonight, tease her from head to toe with your kissing, licking and nibbling and then next time, just go directly to her clit and lick away. This way, you're Mr. Surprise and foreplay and sex with you is the best experience she'll ever have.

Enjoy!

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