A Sexual Massage -- in the Bathtub

Contributed by Gabrielle Moore

One of the ways a woman gives herself a relaxing treat is by soaking in a long, hot bath so you can take this opportunity to really giver her a treat by preparing a bath for her. Of course, with other 'extra treats' as only you can provide.

How to Prepare a 'Proper' Bath for Her

No guys, a bath is not just filling the tub with hot water and pouring some bubble bath solution in it. If you're going to do this, do it good and create the right ambiance for her.

First, close the windows and blinds and submerge the whole bathroom in darkness. Next, light some candles. They can be scented or not depending on what you use for the... scented oil you want to place on the burner or oil diffuser.

So for example, if you're using vanilla oil on the oil diffuser, don't use strawberry-scented candles as the heady, super sweet smells will most likely give you both a headache. Aim for one scent or like what's mentioned above, use non-scented candles if you're going to burn scented oils.

Also, don't scrimp on the candles ok? The more, the merrier!

Next, put on some soothing music and make sure it's not too loud or too soft. To test this, turn the music on and go into the bathroom and close the door a bit. Check if the music level is just right.

Next, make sure everything you need is within reach. It's not good if you break the sexual massage all the time by running out of the bathroom! Plus, it's not good for the overall warm temperature in the bathroom. Just put everything you need on a tray and set this on the toilet or on a small chair.

Don't forget a few edible treats. A glass of wine or champagne and a platter of crackers and cheese are sexy and will make you both last long during the sexual massage.

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Sexual Massage Moves in the Bath

For starters, let her soak in the bath for about 5 to 10 minutes just to loosen her tight muscles and wracked nerves. Don't join her in the bath just yet.

Start sexually massaging her while you're still outside the tub. Sit on the edge or pull up a chair and use a wooden massage roller and move this along her body.

You can also position yourself at the top edge of the tub so you can massage her head. Slip your hands under her shoulders and then draw them up and out. A variation of this step is to pull your hands along the underside of the head, with your fingers against the back of the neck.

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Feel free to shampoo her hair too. The pressure of your hands on her scalp in combination with the soft suds of the shampoo will feel great. Besides, this is the beauty of a sexual massage in the bathroom, no cares for the all the water and soap that might spill on the floor.

Now, without breaking your massage strokes, climb into the bathtub and join her. Sit behind her with her back to yours (sort of like spoon to spoon). Start massaging her shoulders and work your way to her lower back. And now comes the best part... massaging her front.

Start by reaching over and cupping her breasts (gently!). You can use the soap suds or better yet, put more soap gel on your hands and start massaging her breasts as if you were trying to create a lot of lather!

Tease her by massaging her breasts, moving to her shoulders, going back to her breasts, going down and rubbing her stomach, back to hear breasts again. Each time, be a bit more daring and go lower and lower her front. For instance, just massage or 'clean' her belly button with your finger and then go back to her breasts before going down to her pubic area.

Here's a naughty tip for you: unless your woman has gone Brazilian (i.e., has had all her pubic hair shaved off) you can try 'shampooing' her hair down there! Simply apply the same strokes you would as if you were washing her hair.

As a climax to this hot tub sexual massage, you may go ahead and insert your finger in her 'sweet spot'. Remember, this should be part of the sexual massage and should not be seen as the sexual act itself so be gentle while you finger her. The objective is not to make her come but to simply 'connect' with that special place as well. Good luck!

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12 Nights of Passion

Contributed by Gabrielle Moore

Sex games can be as easy or as complicated as you want them to be. There are those where you just whip out a sex game board and be done with it in a few minutes -- nothing wrong with that! -- but there are also those that take some time in its execution.

Your sex life should never be a routine. That's why it's important to engage in BOTH simple and more complex sex games. One benefit of the latter is that the longer you delay actual lovemaking, the hotter you guys are by that time!

12 Nights of Passion

This sex game is designed for super extended foreplay. The goal is to reach the 12th night without having intercourse, making the 12th night one of intense passion. Here's a sample outline you can use.

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1st night -- Have a romantic dinner either at home or at a fancy restaurant. While dining, play footsie and/or indulge in a little bit of groping underneath the table.

2nd night - Sprinkle red roses in bed, light some candles and play some soft music, and then just cuddle each other till you sleep.

3rd night -- Play strip poker and once all your or your partner's clothes are off, engage in a little dry rubbing, but that's it! Don't engage in having sex.

4th night -- Play "silent dirty words". Get a pen and blank sheet of paper each. Write a dirty word or phrase on the piece of paper, tear it off and hand it to your lover. Your lover reads it and then drops it in a bowl. Now it's her turn to write another dirty word or phrase and hand it off to you. Do not talk in between this exercise. Just write, show the words and that's it. The 'loser' is the one who runs out of dirty words first. (You will notice that at the end of this exercise, you guys have just collected a bowl of dirty phrases you can use for a future game!) After the game has ended, laugh it off, have a bowl of ice cream or something and go to bed.

5th night -- Play sexy twister. Take out the twister mat or board and play a traditional game of twister... naked.

6th night -- It's the sixth day, give yourselves a little bit of reprieve by engaging in some hot oral sex. You can bring each other to a climax but do NOT engage in intercourse.

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7th night -- "Accidentally" leave out some adult-rated reading material for your lover to see and glance over. Make sure the erotica is hot enough to really bring about lust in your partner. When she asks you about it, feign innocence!

8th night -- Give each other a sexual massage. Be naughty and daring but do not engage in lovemaking. You can engage in oral pleasure but not to the point of bringing on a climax.

9th night -- Give your partner a call at an odd hour of the day, say 2 PM or whenever she least expects it, and engage in some phone sex. Don't go too far; just get each other excited. After that, say you probably dialed the wrong number and hang up, or change your voice to 'normal' and simply say "love you honey, see you tonight for dinner" and then hang up.

10th night -- Go online together tonight and preview a few adult-rated literotica.

11th night -- Send naughty messages to your lover all throughout the day! Send a sex joke via SMS, email a long and dirty joke, and others. By the time you see each other tonight, pretend like nothing happened!

12th night -- Shoot a short erotic video of yourself. Don't go all the way. Instead, at the end of the video, look into the camera and tell your lover where you should meet tonight. It can be a hotel room, motel room or your own bedroom but fancily dressed up. The minute your lover enters the location you indicated on the video, do not engage in foreplay whatsoever! After all these days, you're pent up passions will be enough for one of the hottest moments of your life!

The 12 Nights of Passion is designed to bring about so many things in your relationship. It's a sex game of creativity and control. But its real goal is to make each day one of heightened sexual pleasure and longing for each other. Can you imagine how you guys will come together by the 12th night after all that waiting and sexual highs and lows?!? Give this extended sex game a try and be sure to do it more than once a year!

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Foreplay Tips for Him

Contributed by Gabrielle Moore

So, you want to take the initiative this time and want to surprise your girlfriend /wife / lover with your foreplay skills. But then again, you realize that foreplay hasn't been your 'thing' lately and you're not sure what to do...

Well, lucky you! I've compiled these hot foreplay tips you can use ASAP so that you can have her breathing hard and lusting for your touch tonight!

Hot Tips for Sexual Foreplay

Sometimes, foreplay can be a disaster if you don't know what you're doing. For instance, you may have seen movies where he 'tweaks' her nipples... HARD. Well guys, you know what? That HURTS and you're not really arousing her that way. So to guide your naughty thoughts, take heed of my foreplay tips below!

Don't forget her neck. Often, guys think of foreplay as 'kissing' and making love as 'having sex'. Sorry guys, that's way too simple for us girls. So during foreplay, don't just kiss her thoroughly, pay attention too to other female body parts such as her neck, arms, legs, and even her feet. Alternate between kissing, licking and nibbling these areas and she'll be putty in your hands in no time.

Mentally 'sex her up'. It's a fact. Guys go for visual stuff while women like to be mentally put 'in the mood'. So if you're planning for some hot sex tonight, start foreplay early during the day so she's already in the mood by the time you reach for her at home.

For example, if you guys are standing on line for something, get close to her and whisper something REALLY DIRRRTY into her ear! Important: paint her a picture in her head. So don't just say "I'm going to fuck you tonight". Instead, say "You know babe, I'm horny now so when we get back home, I will lick your clit so good that..." I think you get my drift by now...

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Dry hump her. In its most generic sense, foreplay is all about 'increasing the sexual tension' so that you and your partner are uber-primed for the sexual act itself. Well, what's more arousing than imitating intercourse movements (humping) than doing it with clothes on! Preferably, do this in a public place or in a club. Basically, do it where you cannot proceed to doing intercourse. This way, you guys will be h-h-hot for sex later!

Slow dance... while butt-naked. OK, this time foreplay without clothes! You can just be half-dressed or completely naked for this one. Put on some slow and/or lusty music, dim the lights, light some candles, take some or all of your clothes off and start swaying to the music. Remember that the trick here is to dance close to her body so that she can feel your erection against her. Hot!

Go 'under the table'. I just love sharing experiences from subscribers and here's another one. One time, while Jill (subscriber name changed for privacy) and her husband were having dinner, they were getting a bit naughty and started to 'play footsie' under the table. This then proceeded to her fully extending her leg and with her foot, she started playing with his penis through his pants. What happened next shocked her...

Without warning, he went under the table, spread her legs, pulled down her shorts and tongued her! Jill swears the foreplay and the suddenness of his moves was the hottest sex and the best orgasm she ever had!

Try this one tonight and don't worry if she's wearing pants. Just rub your face against her mound and it will turn her so horny SHE will start to bring her pants down.

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Tease her until the very end. No, the fact that she has her clothes off does NOT mean it's intercourse time. You can extend foreplay to the very end and bring her to delirious lust by using the head of your penis to tease her throbbing vagina. Just rub the point of your manhood all over her vagina -- especially her clit -- and trust me, she'll go wild with passion!

I hope you thoroughly enjoy these foreplay tips! Just remember to vary your 'foreplay moves'. Otherwise, everything becomes routine again! So for example, tonight, tease her from head to toe with your kissing, licking and nibbling and then next time, just go directly to her clit and lick away. This way, you're Mr. Surprise and foreplay and sex with you is the best experience she'll ever have.

Enjoy!

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10 Things NOT to Do During Foreplay

Contributed by Gabrielle Moore

Sometimes, in our quest for better foreplay and better sex, we tend to get a bit carried away... to the point that we do things that TURN OFF our partners. Some of these mistakes are not just overzealousness but due to myths propagated in adult films and magazines.

Well, to avoid these foreplay booboos, here's a list of Ten Foreplay DON'TS.

In General...

Take a shower and be properly groomed. I'm not talking about going to a salon here. Just ensure that your breath and body are clean. Also, if you're planning to do some 'poking', ensure that you cut your nails down. Nothing hurts more than long nails, or can be more disgusting (in case you poke into something and er... take out something with your nails! Yuck!)

Put on some music. Foreplay can be a very embarrassingly noisy event (wet slapping noises, an escaped fart or two, etc.). To hide these sounds, drown them out with a bit of sexy music.

Don't OVER-tongue him/her. Don't ram your tongue into your partner's eardrums or throat. It can be a complete turn off if he/she feels the need to tilt his/her head (from having clogged ears) or feels the need to gag.

Don't embarrass him/her. I once advised a client to 'start foreplay early during the day' and mentioned some of my 'foreplay moves' like rubbing against each other, dry humping, footsie playing, etc. Well, I guess my client got carried away as she tried footsie playing with him during a business dinner. She thought she was being 'naughty', he thought it was annoying. Moral lesson? Know WHEN to make your moves.

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For Him...

Don't twirl, tweak and twist her nipples hard. No. Despite what you often see in adult films, she really doesn't like it if you play too roughly with her nipples. They need to be caressed, not manhandled.

Don't be the one to request to turn the lights off. Almost all women have body image issues. So don't do her a favour by asking to have the lights off. In contrast, she'll immediately think you find her body offensive in some way. If she's not exactly the 'cover girl' type, don't over compliment her either because she'll know you're lying. Instead, just tell her you prefer women with 'curves'.

Don't go for g-spot stimulation if you don't know what the hell you're doing! Sure, g-spot stimulation can bring her almost sexual nirvana but it can be painful for her if you don't know what you're doing. I'm not saying don't attempt it. Rather, be very attuned to how she responds to your fingers.

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For Her...

Don't ask him to wear a thong. Ladies, despite what you hear about the 'metrosexual man', don't ask him to put on a thong. It really does turn most men OFF.

Don't smother him. He's gone down on you and boy do you love it! You're delirious with pleasure and because of this you... try to squeeze your thighs shut and/or start to grab his hair and knead his face against your crotch. Well, let's see what you're REALLY doing to him here. With the first one, you're like a praying mantis trying to squeeze and rip his head off. With the second one, you're making it hard for him to breathe! Ease up girls. Show your appreciation the RIGHT way and he's bound to lick you to the ends of the earth again.

Don't expect him to read your mind. One of the worse things you can do during foreplay is to expect him to know exactly what you want to happen. With this attitude, you're really setting yourself (and him) for a foreplay disaster. Let him know that you like what he's doing to you, or better yet, TELL him EXACTLY what you want done. He'll appreciate it and you get what you want. Win-win!


Foreplay is all about increasing sexual tension in a way that is pleasurable for you and your partner in more than just the sexual sense. It should be in an atmosphere of comfort and trust, and maybe even with a hint of sexual danger, and not be forced or selfish in any way.

Think about this the next time you engage in foreplay with your partner and you're bound to have a great and sexually thrilling time!

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Sexual Massage Techniques

Contributed by Gabrielle Moore

A sexual massage is just something I LOVE to receive from my partner. It always relaxes my body and my mind, and never fails to stir my center till I'm all wet and ready to have mind-blowing sex!

I'm sure you want your woman to feel this too so I'm going to give you some basic sexual massage moves you can do tonight. Ready?


How to Give Your Woman a Sexual Massage

In addition to ensuring that you have the right environment (i.e., a quiet room, a well-laid out bed or place on the floor, etc.) and equipment (e.g. scented candles, massage oils, etc.), consider making use of fabric or items made of silk, satin and velvet as well. All these different textures can help bring about different reactions from her. If you don't have them, don't worry. Nothing can beat the best part of this sexual massage session: you.

Firstly, ask your woman to undress (or better yet, undress her). Another tip here to ensure good hygiene is to give her a warm bath first. Either way, once she's nude, have her lie face down on the area you prepared for the massage. While she has her back to you, undress as well.

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Use your hot breath.

Make sure your body and hands are not cold and then lie on top of her (you facing the back of her head). Support your weight on your arms (don't crush her!). This move does three things: it signals the start of the sexual massage by applying pressure on her whole body; it helps to warm her body and prepare it for the massage; and it starts to introduce sexual thoughts into her head because she can feel your penis between her thighs.

Now don't get carried away here and start sex. Proceed with the sexual massage and you will be rewarded as the sexual tension builds up!

Now, start to breathe on her neck and her back. Your hot breath should stimulate her sensitive skin.

Use your fingertips.

Now, pull yourself up and straddle her thighs (your penis resting between the backs of her legs), put some warm oil on your hands and start to massage her back with just your fingertips. Alternate your strokes. Apply hard, pressured ones with light touches.

Palm circling.

Progress from using your fingers to 'palm circling', which is basically massaging her back by applying the whole width of your hand. This is a firmer technique that helps her body really relax. As a general rule, never massage her on the bones. Place the palms of both your hands on her back and move them in circles, firmly outward and away from her spine.

Gliding.

Scoot yourself lower down her body. You buttocks should be by her feet now. Now reach to the top of her shoulders and start doing the palm circling massage... but this time, glide down to her ass and start massaging there too. After a few strokes, you can be naughtier with this one.

Reach to the top of her shoulders again but this time, keep your head low so that your face is right in front of her ass. (Like kneeling and bowing to someone.) You can do the palm circling again while breathing hot and heavy against her ass.

A slight -- and naughtier variation -- would be to lick her ass instead of breathing your hot breath on it WHILE palm circling her back. (Hey, don't forget the massage part even while you're busy sexually arousing her.)

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Thumbing.

Go back to straddling her thighs, sitting up now, and use your thumbs to massage her lower back. You should make short, rapid, alternate strokes with each thumb, moving up and across her ass toward her waist. Continue up the right-hand side of her body all the way to the shoulders. Repeat this on the left side of her body and finish off by going back and concentrating again on her lower back (just above her butt).

Now for the sexual part... continue to thumb massage her while your hands move slowly down her butt. Part her crack and start to thumb massage her anus. She will try to squirm here but be firm! If she can take it, alternate between this massage and breathing your hot breath on her anus.

Repeat all these back massages as long as you want! Just remember to oil up often as the warm oil and the gliding effect of your skin on hers does a lot of sexual magic!

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