Sunday, November 1, 2009

Get My Thai Boyfriend Back

Do you wonder "how do I get my Thai boyfriend back?" This article will show you three different strategies to get your Thai boyfriend back. These are not strategies that can be done in conjunction with one another. Pick one path and stick to it.

The first path is to be needy. This is not a recommended path. When you are needy, you write lots of love letters, pester him with dozens of texts or emails, and call him at least five times a day. Unless your Thai boyfriend is a real wimp, this will probably turn him off rather than get your Thai boyfriend back.

The alternative to being needy is the second path which is to be available. If you have some hope that your Thai boyfriend will want you back after you have given him a little bit of space, your best strategy is simply to be available. Answer his phone calls and emails, give him a shoulder to cry on, and don't harass him about getting back together. It's okay to go on with your life and date other people during this period, but don't flaunt it in your Thai boyfriend's face.

If you follow the available path, you'll just "show up" places where your Thai boyfriend is likely to be hanging out. You'll find occasional excuses to call your Thai boyfriend (but never more than once every few days).

In this path, you will also send emissaries to him or his friends broaching a reconciliation.

But if you don't think being available is going to work, you can choose the third path which is to be aggressive –- about other people. If you choose the aggressive path, you are going to play on one of mankind's primal urges, namely jealousy.

This third path could also be called "date your Thai boyfriend's best friend" because that is one of the strategies on this path.

What you will want to do is make yourself your Thai boyfriend's dream girl (or guy) and then pursue his friends. When you show up at places he hangs out, you will pay lavish attention to your Thai boyfriend's friends and none whatsoever to him. When you do land a date with your Thai boyfriend's friend, you should text your Thai boyfriend and ask him what kind of restaurant to make reservations at for your date or which club to go to. Get in your Thai boyfriend's face with the fact that you are on the market.

As your Thai boyfriend sees that you are a valuable commodity, he will want you back. Jealousy is a powerful human emotion.

Be aware that playing games like this could backfire. If you invest a lot of emotion in "tricking" your Thai boyfriend into wanting you and he or she really is over you, you could hurt yourself badly. Only you can decide whether this strategy is worth the consequences it may cause you.

So, there are three different paths to how to "get my Thai boyfriend back".

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1 comment:

  1. My break up was confusing the guy gave me mixed signals as to why he wanted to break up. We got into a small argument with me getting mad at him that exploded 3 days later he wanted a break for a week. During that week things escalated between friends and family we started talking things out again over text. It seemed as if he was open to fixing things between us and was asking to talk in person. We were still arguing during the first week of the break about what the other was doing and who they were around. Then about 3 months ago another break up or break came out of nowhere we seemed to be getting things back in track until no matter what I said or tried to do would not keep him. I need to get him back. I order love spells on http://magical-rituals.com and this spell caster really help me. My lover back to me.

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