Showing posts with label oral sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label oral sex. Show all posts

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Oral Sex Booboos -- And What To Do About Them

Contributed by Gabrielle Moore

Unlike what you may see in adult-rated movies, sex in real life can actually be awkward and funny. Slipping, fanny farts and sloppy wet noises are ALL part of making love. You can't escape them. The trick is, of course, how to deal with these situations; how you convert the seemingly embarrassing situation into one that's not.

The same goes with oral sex. There are booboos that might occur so it's up to you guys to deal with it in such a way that it doesn't completely destroy the sexual charge in the bedroom!



How to Deal with oral sex Blunders!

The following items are scenarios that can likely happen during oral sex. They're not meant to discourage you and your partner with engaging in oral sex at all. They're meant as a guide to help you guys get over potentially awkward, yet real life situations easily.

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Scenario 1: Your pubic hair gets caught in her teeth. This happens more often than you think. You're so turned on by the sexual pleasure and she's so into what she's doing that unwittingly, a strand of your pubic hair gets caught in her teeth... and gets yanked. Ouch!

The best way to deal with this is, of course, to laugh it off. Now how to get that hair out? The worst thing she can do is to make a big show out of it by sitting up and trying to get the hair out with her mouth wide open and her fist in her mouth. Instead, she should casually -- almost quietly and without drawing attention to it -- take the hair out from her mouth and simply wipe the hair on the bed sheet to deal with later.

Scenario 2: Her dentures get 'dislodged'. Actually, if HE didn't' notice it, SHE should simply proceed as if nothing happened. However, the problem here is that often, her instinctive reaction is, of course, to 'catch' the slipping denture with her hand, or worse, by closing her mouth. If this happens, and if she caused you pain, she should remedy the situation by slowly, lovingly licking and caressing the injured spot.

Scenario 3: She 'accidentally' bites you. Sometimes women get so turned on by performing fellatio that they get a tad carried away and he can feel her teeth slowly, but firmly, touching his manhood. First of all, if you feel this guys, speak up! Simply touch her hair lovingly -- don't yank because you're in a panic -- and ask her to ease up a bit. Believe me, she will understand.

The same goes if she's using her nails, has tongue jewelry or even hand jewelry that you feel is too close for comfort. Simply speak up before the 'accident' occurs.

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Scenario 4: You let out some 'gas'. If women are afraid of farts, men get conscious, too, of letting out gas, especially if their women are down there performing fellatio on them. If this does occur, what do you do? Really, the best thing to do is simply pretend like it didn't happen.

However, if what you released was not pleasant at all, then be a gentleman and stop for awhile. It's no use for you to go out of the room as the deed was done there. However, what you can do is ask her to stop, pull her up so you guys are face-to-face and get into some deep kissing. This way, the sexual rhythm is not that shattered, yet you save her from suffering down there or worse, give her time to laugh and make fun of you.

Scenario 5: She gags. Some women can be too adventurous and try to bring their man's manhood all inside her mouth. The problem is, if her mouth really can't accommodate him, she'll experience what most people call a 'gag reflex' and this is not pleasant - for you and her. The best thing to do is for her to pause as proceeding might only push her to gag further.

However, this does not mean she should stop stimulation of your manhood altogether. She can simply take you out of her mouth and use her hand for a while to stimulate you while she catches her breath.



In the end, a good sense of humor is all it takes to get over these oral sex booboos. The more you focus on them, and the longer you focus on them, the bigger the blunder gets and the more awkward the situation becomes. Don't let this happen, as this may become a deterrent in engaging in oral sex in the future.

Have a laugh, jot it down as experience, and move on!

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Friday, June 5, 2009

Six Cunnilingus Games to Try

Contributed by Gabrielle Moore

So who says eating her out is boring? (It never is for HER you know.) But if you and your partner already engage a lot in cunnilingus then you may want to up the heat factor a bit with these hot, erotic, and mind-blowing cunnilingus games!

6 Cunnilingus Games to Try Tonight

The Alphabet or Spelling Game

This cunnilingus game is very easy to do. Using your tongue, simply write out a letter of the alphabet and make her guess what that letter is. For the more 'advanced' players, you can move on to spelling certain words or phrases like "I love you" or "Horny". Not only does this game make cunnilingus more exciting, it also helps to put a nervous woman at ease because she's forced to focus on deciphering your letters or words than on any insecurities she may have.

My personal favorite is when my lover writes the letter "i". Of course, the dot on the "i" lands on my clit!

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The Hot and Cold Game

This game makes use of ice cubes or ice cream. Simply lavish her pussy with your licking and then take a short pause to put an ice cube in your mouth for a few seconds. Take out the ice cube and go directly back to licking her! The hot and cold sensations on her pussy will drive her wild. Guaranteed! For variation, a bowl of ice cream beside you will also be great.

The Soft and Rough Game

According to many women, the best licking is the soft, steady and slow licks. But just as when she's already relaxed and into your cunnilingus play, change your licking style a little and 'rough her up' a bit. Go from slow and soft, to fast and hard licking just to shock her. Then go back again to slow and soft. Warning: do NOT do this when she's already hot and shouting "yes... yes..." because this means that you've already hit the winning motion and she's really turned on now or about to come. In this scenario, the last thing she needs is for you to change or alter what you're doing. Got it?

The 'Food Plate'

I personally love this cunnilingus variation! Here, her pussy becomes a veritable plate of delicious food offerings waiting for you to be devoured. My lover specifically enjoys this when he's hungry (literally!) so that he's really into eating the food placed on top of my pussy.

The food you use is really all up to you guys so long as they are in small, bite-size pieces. For example, you can have some cut-up fruit, some sushi pieces, and of course whipped cream figures in this equation most of the time.

Just be creative! Many more ideas here.

The Exhibitionist

In this particular cunnilingus game, you play the spectator and she the performer, at least at the start. May women, claim that their men have no clues how to please them 'down there'. For men, they equally claim that it's not as if there's a manual to cunnilingus. Furthermore, many women are actually shy or inhibited during cunnilingus that it's hard to decipher what they do and don't like.

Well, this game ends the speculation. First, the man sits on a chair opposite the bed. The woman who's lying on the bed, with her legs spread and facing him, then begins to play with herself. This is a gigantic turn-on for him, making him want to eat her pussy all the more. But more than that, the 'show' actually enables him to know how she wants to be touched and licked.

Just when she's really wet and into pleasing herself, get out of the chair and do cunnilingus on her!

Three's NOT a Crowd

If you're the really adventurous type of couple then a three-some is not out of the question, right? For most couples I know, they prefer the 2 women, 1 man combo. This is because most men have fantasies of being in bed with more than one woman anyway. As for the woman, it's not really hard for her to imagine being made love to by another woman as opposed to men thinking of having sex with other men.

In this cunnilingus game, you and the third person can simply take turns eating your woman out or she can focus on your partner's other glorious parts while you perform cunnilingus on her.



Whatever game you choose to do tonight, focus on fun, pleasure, while being responsible at the same time, ok?

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